Just call me Howard Wolowitz

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Photo Credit: ScreenCrush.com

Anyone who watches The Big Bang Theory and also knows me would probably say I’m most like the character Penny. I love shoes and shopping, and I hate science. But unfortunately, I feel there’s a bigger connection between me and Howard Wolowitz, the nerdy, Jewish engineer.

Although I’m not Jewish, or an engineer, or nerdy (well maybe a little), Howard Wolowitz and I have something in common: we have experienced something our friends and family have never, and probably will never, experience.

You see, Howard Wolowitz went to space. When he returned, all he could talk about were his experiences in space. Every conversation he had led back to a story about being in space. His friends quickly became tired of him always talking about space, and they eventually called him out on it. No more space stories, they told him.

In less than a week, I’ll be Howard Wolowitz. I’ll return to my friends and family with stories of my life from the past year, and all of those stories took place in Africa. Everyone I’ve talked to who has spent time overseas and then returns to the US says the same thing: “Many people won’t really care. They’ll want a sentence or two about your time overseas, and then they’ll be over it.”

Ouch. I guess it’s good to be prepared, but… ouch.

IMG_20140524_175951My heart tells me that my very best friends will care. It tells me that they won’t mind that all I know for the past year is Africa, therefore, that might be all I have to talk about for a while. But what if that’s not the case? What if they get tired of hearing about Africa?

This is my plea to friends and family: be patient with me.

If every conversation we have leads to a story about Africa, I apologize, but that’s all I’ve known since the end of July 2013. It’s not that I’m trying to show off or brag about my time here, it’s that I don’t know any differently. My stories, my life, my heart, have all been Uganda for nearly a year.

Howard Wolowitz eventually realized that maybe he was talking about space too much, and maybe I’ll reach that point as well. But until I readjust to life in a first-world country, I am asking for patience and grace.

3 thoughts on “Just call me Howard Wolowitz

  1. Heather

    Don’t be sorry, I want to hear about it, you were there for basically a year and experienced so much. I know how you feel since I lived in turkey for a little less than a year. Those of us who know and love you are excited to hear about your life this past year!! Good luck with packing, good byes and safe travels cause we are ready to have you back!

  2. bdiz89

    I can totally relate to this having just returned from Uganda to the UK. I’m sure your friends will love to hear about your adventures.

  3. Meg marsh

    Natalie, I don’t know how you are going to leave little Florence and her brother. I told Donny I thought you’d end up bringing them over here . And so it will be your onus and responsibility to write about your experiences. MAKE people want to hear about the wonderful ness of your time in Africa. I, for one, can’t wait to read about it all!!

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